Pear pressure

its the simple things

that makes life hard

its the many thought given to simple

things that makes thinking difficult

its the the several options seeked

that makes life confusing

its the will to choose that

makes life intermediately adventurous

its the way all YES want to be NO

and all NO crave to actually mean YES

that makes life so spontaneous

its the surprises unexpected that

makes all the lies expected and also accepted

its the way i want it

they way she hides it

the way he said it

the truth that hurts

the things that are compulsory

the things that go with the things

its the yes that i said

that you want to agree on

its the way every problem

has two solutions

your way or my way

its the way doing the right thing

is now a competition

its the way thinking is cheap

and acting i difficult

its the too many errors

and the lack of excuses

its the repetition and the

slow correction

its the tolerance and the

patience by force demanded by piece

its the changes that never change

and the changes that we do not know how to handle

the one's we never expected

or the ones we constantly say wont happen

its the thin line between

love and hate

its the risks to take and the

wrong moves to make

its the state of minds we

find our selfs and the refusal move

even thought its truly optional

its the way we go all out with

expectations but still refuse to c

nothing coming in return

its the thinks you do that i

do not like and the things i do

that you do not like

its the things you'd like to do

and the thinks i pretend i do not do

its the things that makes you

smile when you alone

and pretend when your not

2 PEOPLE THINGI

Someone once said in a movie that marriage is

“I can give you anything but love”.

He also said he thought love

was a mild kind of illness like a

flue or chicken pox of which he is safely immune.

He said when it comes to the opposite sex most men are selfish.

I like that man for nothing but his sense of humor.

“what is marriage life like”.

What would draw someone to say,

“Let’s leave together”,

when everybody wishes they could own a house individually…….. Space.

Everybody loves that yet everybody is scared to be alone.

I went out last week and as coming back home, I got a lift.

Benefit of the thought, I took it…. An old man; Almost 60.

We talked for hours. I was enjoying the conversation.

He told me about all his girlfriends and said

“don’t think your husband will never cheat you on”.

He said that’s what marriage life is.

He said he had to hold every kind of woman before he died.

He said he had even slept with Asian women before…..... At that point I dint know if he was exaggerating but I was game……

he said

if u never cheat You would be cheating myself.

If u stick to one person life would be boring.

If you get married and he doesn’t cheat teach him how to cheat

As I sat there people kept staring but there eyes weren’t saying “disgusting”, rather they were saying” ahaa but this is normal”.

He said

What would make a young girl go for an old man?

Money and Security

What would make an old man go for a young girl?

The feeling of youthfulness.

What would make a man cheat on his wife?

Too much familiarity lack of variety

What would make a married woman cheat on her husband?

I never wanted you.

What would make a young guy cheat with his fiancée’s best friend before his wedding day?

Of course he would marry you, but you knew I would go to her.

What would let a woman cheat with her best man before he wedding

You should have come with him when you were asking me out. I would have said no.

Its actually very easy to build ones happiness on another’s unhappiness

How is after marriage really like.

Do are parents know the truth or they show us what we want to see.

What if you don’t marry the one you want o marry.

What if you marry the one you want to be with?

What if you marry someone way older?

What if u marry someone way younger

What if we don’t get married at all?

What if married life is really all about

Cheat.,

Lies,

Smile for the camera,

Family lunch dates,

Sleep in different rooms,

using your business as camouflage.

Do you think you would always know

what goes on in the mind

if the one you sleep next to

simply difficult

are you alright

did i hurt you

am so sorry

are you okay

it was unconcious

i came as soon as i could

what did i do wrong

can i correct it

should i give you a day

please call me back

where are you, am coming over

it would never happin to us

it would take a lot

first thing in the morning

your the best

lets start over

i don't want you to go

i would prove it to you

i got u

its hard to work when you'r mad at me

i dont wont you to get hurt

my mom says hi

its always about you

i hope you will be fine

call me when your fine

i dont feel like talking to you

i will try 2morro

am too tied

i just want to hung out

i think your too into me

give me some time

i need space

do you see us together

am sorry

thats what i thought

am falling out

i will give you time

i want to be single

oh! am glad thats over

do i account to you

i didn't think its important

i think about both of you

don't dare me when it comes to you

it should be simple and painful

i can see your lips moving

but all i hear is blah blah blah

make your list

its hard being myself
when i have so many things
and so many people hooked to me

some i can handle
in few seconds
and some assistance would be needed

wierd how freedom canbe explained
as being able to do what ever you want

when what ever you want
is when every smile hides a tear

when every smile comes with
" how am i going to go through this"

when i have a whole list
of what i need
but can only have
number 1 and 99

if everybody has to shout
" i need ............."
the wolud would be filled with
" we are out of ..............."

give me time, and money
and patience and and and
and forever

learn to learn

u would just Love to know what my heard is filled wit.
its amazing how ppl perceive things in different ways
its amaizn how everybody is different
its really a Godly gift
and yet we feel reluctant to know understand and share
ppl may say u are 2know cs u wont hung out wif em
and som may also nt understand wy u may hug out ppl less u
its all for wat they know and wat u can learn from em
that wat ppl never com around to understand
ppl com into our lives for various reasons beyond our imagination
learnt to learn from each other
and if u aint learnin nafin from sm1 then u aint lookin beyond his outward capabilities
life is teachn us thing evry day
ups, downs
all makeup our life
make use of every chance u get to spend wif any 1 u can across
u dnt know wat u can learn from even a bus conductor
again u hav no idea what my heard is filled wit
so i also dnt know of u.