Friday, July 22, 2011

Before we go

Breakthroughs don’t happen because it’s time to let go or clich├ęs are pronounced. Real breakthroughs happen because someone is scared to death to give up or stop trying; making the right decision is making a decision. You from an opinion and you argue for it. You patiently wait for the aftermath then you take responsibility for you decision and action. We all wana grow up. Desperate to get there. Grab all that opportunities we can to live. We are so busy tryna get out of that nest we don’t think about the fact that its gona be cold out there. Really cold. Because growing up sometimes means leaving people behind, especially those who pull you back. And by the time we stand on our own two feet we standing there alone. Yes we can’t do it all alone but at the long run its really just you making does decisions. So grow up, but grow in maturity not in age and numbers


Nobody chooses to be different. Most people don’t even realize they are different until its way too late to change it. But no matter how much different you end up being; chances are there’s still someone who digs your different-ness. Unless of cause they’re too much of a dim-wit to see how cool being different is. At that point you are def’ super too cool for ‘em.


Energy, matter, it’s always changing. Structuring, merging, growing and dying. The way people try not to change, that’s unnatural. The way we cling to things that should be let go and live with what’s with use. Instead of letting them be what they are we should know change is constant. How we experience change that’s up to us. It can feel like death or it can fell like a thousand second chances. Like any moment we can have another and another second chance at life. Like at any moment we can b born all over again.

For that reason

Sometimes all you can see is the machine and the damage but everything gets awesome after the immediate danger has passed. The goal of every challenge is for you to come out successfully. Total recovery means to come out way better than you were before.

Some deal with it quickly and fell immediate relieve and others the healing happens gradually, and it’s not until months or time passing before you realize you don’t hurt anymore.

So the challenge after every up and down is to be patience. But if you can make it through the first weeks and months, if you believe than healing is possible. Then you can get your life back. But that’s a big if.

Like snakes in our own way we shared our own skin. We may look the same. We probably do. Change is invincible. Not all of use though but we are completely changed forever

And then . . .

Our DNA doesn’t account for all of us though; we are human, life changes use. We develop new traits, become less territorial. we stop competing. We learn from our mistakes. We face our greatest fears. For better or worse. We find ways to become better than our biology. The risk of cause is that we can change too much, to the point we don’t recognize ourselves. Finding our way back can be difficult. There’s no compass no map. We just have to close our eyes take a step and hope to God we get there. You live life for the better and for the worse. This is the worst part. The better would come ‘cos God says so. On the whole there’s really never a best way to fix anything. You just work with what you have and pray and hope for the better ‘cos some methods may work for others but may never work for you and vice versa

on the cards

They say lightening never strikes twice. But that’s a myth. It doesn’t ensue often. Lightening usually gets it right the first time. When you are hit with 3000 amps of electricity you feel it. It can make you forget who you are. It can burn you. Blind you. Stop your heart. But for something that happens in only a million second, it can change your life for ever

Lightening does not strik twice. It’s a once in a life time thing. Eventually the pain will go away. The shock would wear off. And you start to heal yourself. To recover from something you never saw coming yet sometimes alters in you favor, if you are in just the right place at the right time. You can take a hell of a hit and still have a short at surviving